Girls

[cr3am]

Girls. damn 'em. they make you feel so bad inside :( why don't the ones you like ever like you?

[Smapdey]

The ones I like do like me, and so do a lot of ones I don't like. I still encourage you to read my what's-it-called, my signature.

[future man]

Cream, take your own sigs advice.

[skribb]

that's what i have....crap all chicks dumps you...im telling you they're all succubbi!!!

[Yian]

Cream, give it some time! Go to my website and you will see a girl's name. She doesn't like me, not even my friend, but I'm here and waiting. She's only 19, don't know shit about the world, and she still lives in the world of skin, a wrold where the looks is everything... one day she will get old, become ugly, and by then she will understand that ,the one who will still treat her the same, would be me.

[Yian]

...the same to you, Skribb.

[~SOB~]

No no no. Girls that require a lot of mainatenance are the devil. You all seem to get girls that want to much. I look for females that are happy with an inflatable chair, and shots of high proof liquor. Trust me, its JUST that easy, they are out there

[ReDeeMeR]

Shit, lately I barely had time to play fkn games anymore and I REALLY need to find a GF, but there so little time ahhh drat...

I dont want some1 who drinks alot or smokes, but those who dint usualy need ALOT of attention =(

[Petrodon]

Dude, poetic guys like you Yian are cool in my book. Really, but have you ever noticed how the nice guys never seem to get a chance. That's because chicks want strong guys. Trust me, I was a total loser until I realized how hardcore I could be. Then I started getting dates, now I've eased back into my nice guy state, and that's where my girl wants me to be.

Try it sometime. Be the guy that no one thinks you are and heads will turn. Then you can be yourself once again.

Food for thought.

[cr3am]

i was obsessed with this one girl for such a long time, i loved her and everything. she kissed me a while before i loved her, but she just started avoiding me, any time we had plans something fucked 'em up right before we had time to do it.

it's always the girl you can't get :(

[Smapdey]

That's a good point. Longing makes the heart go stronger. I'm becoming turned off by any girl I know I can have easy. I like the hunt.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Smapdey
That's a good point. Longing makes the heart go stronger. I'm becoming turned off by any girl I know I can have easy. I like the hunt. meh... i haven't had a girlfriend for more than a week, so i think i'll go for the ones that i have a chance at.

[Smapdey]

I haven't had a girlfriend in about 6 months, I've had tons of hook ups and one night stands in between though.

God bless the one night stand.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Smapdey
I haven't had a girlfriend in about 6 months, I've had tons of hook ups and one night stands in between though.

God bless the one night stand. no, i mean none of the relationships i've had lasted longer than a week

[future man]

Yeah dude, as long as i get to release some sexual tension.....without the part in your sig, then im fine.

[Smapdey]

Damn. I don't think I've had a week long relationship in awhile. Those are always fun.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Smapdey
Damn. I don't think I've had a week long relationship in awhile. Those are always fun. not when nothing happens during them :\

[Smapdey]

Yeah you're right, but typically, I like to have the girl give me a little action before I start asking out.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Petrodon
Dude, poetic guys like you Yian are cool in my book. Really, but have you ever noticed how the nice guys never seem to get a chance. That's because chicks want strong guys. Trust me, I was a total loser until I realized how hardcore I could be. Then I started getting dates, now I've eased back into my nice guy state, and that's where my girl wants me to be.

Try it sometime. Be the guy that no one thinks you are and heads will turn. Then you can be yourself once again.

Food for thought. ok, example please. i'm the nice guy, and it gets me nowhere in high school. help me out PLEASE

[Smapdey]

Dude, Girls are fickle. They're completely and totally fickle. Don't worry about it. The right one will drop into your lap, don't go looking.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Smapdey
Dude, Girls are fickle. They're completely and totally fickle. Don't worry about it. The right one will drop into your lap, don't go looking. until she drops into my lap, i wanna have some fun with other girls. i don't wanna be a guy that's had sex with one and only one girl... my wife.

[Smapdey]

You won't. There's going to be a million girls and you'll be doing stuff with them a million times over. They're all gonna mean something, you just gotta live with it. Don't worry dude, everyone gets laid by quite a few people. Besides, you're young. You're got years ahead to catch up in fucking.

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Smapdey
You won't. There's going to be a million girls and you'll be doing stuff with them a million times over. They're all gonna mean something, you just gotta live with it. Don't worry dude, everyone gets laid by quite a few people. Besides, you're young. You're got years ahead to catch up in fucking. *damnit, he's making sense*

but petrodon, i want an example of what you did.

[Hobbes874]

*sigh* girls....their so hard to understand.

[Yian]

Ehhhh.... you really want a girl this bad? Okay... no more poetic shit, here is a practical tip:

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You know what... I can't really come up with any. But hey, why do you want a girl that won't love you if you don't force yourself into something? Windows XP is great but are you gonna install it on a Mac? Sometimes a girl can be great, but might just not for you...

Sorry if it sounds stupid or doesn't help much, but I truly know what you mean by "the girl who you love never love you"....

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Yian
You know what... I can't really come up with any. But hey, why do you want a girl that won't love you if you don't force yourself into something? Windows XP is great but are you gonna install it on a Mac? Sometimes a girl can be great, but might just not for you...

Sorry if it sounds stupid or doesn't help much, but I truly know what you mean by "the girl who you love never love you".... nooooo... i USED to love her, i don't anymore. but i just don't want it to happen again.... i wanna love her, and get her

[SixShooter]

Ah, women.

The single largest bane of my existence.

I'm going to rant a bit here... (oh, wait. This is the Rant Box. Perfect.)


Men, as a rule, like to think that having a woman will make us happy. And that, largely, is true. I know that I hate being lonely, and not having a woman in my life (For those of you who may or may not know, I'm in the process of a divorce) is making me miserable. Yes, I feel lonely at night. Yes, I miss having a partner to share my joys and help soften the blow of my disappointments.

But lets also look at the alternative. Name a woman who is - after close, personal scrutiny - not completely insane? Tell me of a woman who does not possess the ability to completely ignore all forms of logic, common sense and fair play, and make you so angry that you want to put your forehead through 3 inches of plywood just to vent the awesome amount of anger and frustration she injects into your life on a semi-daily basis?

Go ahead. I'll wait.

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Having trouble?

Of course you are. She doesn't exist.

Men and women are, biologically, biochemically, and bioeverythingly different creatures. We look at everything in life from different vantage points, and have such dissimilar interests that finding that one woman who you want to share your life with is a nigh-impossible task. Eight years ago, I thought I had found that one woman. Of course, she hated my family, and my family, in turn, hated her, but I thought "Hey, this is love, right? Love conquers all, that's what they tell us! Everything will work out just dandy." We married, had kids, and life happened, all the while, I was convinced that everything was working out.

It wasn't. I was miserable. She was miserable. The only good things in our lives were our children. We split, and it has been largely downhill from there.

So my advice is don't be in such a rush to find a woman. Women are highly overrated. If I had it to do over again, I would - simply because my kids would be here, whom I love more than I could ever express in a mere forum post, but that's it. Women have caused me more grief, more pain and more heartache than I ever thought possible.

So that's the bad part about women.

But there are good things about them, and many of you already know exactly what I mean. Women can invoke such feelings in men that no drug can ever reproduce. The love a woman can make you feel invincible, intelligent, powerful, and so wanted that you are instantaneously on top of the world. The touch, the smell, they are intoxicating lures that we men cannot resist - nor do we want to. The only problem is that once we get that close, and the shine wears off (and make no mistake - it wears off), we are stuck with this person who we suddenly realize we simply cannot stand to be around. And getting away from them isn't so easy either.

Of course, my ranting doesn't change a bloody thing, really. Men will be men, and women will be women. We still want them, they still piss us off, and in order for any of us non-gay people to get laid anytime soon, we have to put up with their bullshit, and they with ours.

Just be careful you know what you're getting into when you pick that one special lady - be absolutely positive that she is the one. Because if you're not and she isn't the one, you're in for a world of shit.

[2Lions]

I wish there was some kind of return policy on women. You can give it a go for three months and then get your money / shattered nerves back if it doesn't work out.

[Deus Ex]

SixShooter, that was a very thought provoking post, glad you could share your experience...it's definitely making me think twice about marriage, not that I'm going to do it any soon though.

[Yian]

So... a good idea will be wait for a woman that really suit you, since love fades away after a period of time. If love is not there, or just not as strong, all the flaws between you and your partner will surface. Face it, love cannot happened itself, but through understanding. A solid foundation...

We might be charmed by a girl's beauty, but our eyes are always seeking for new thing, so the girl that is pretty today might not be as pretty after 5 or 10 years. Might sounds cliche, but what is inside really matters.

A mate for life of a lonely need, a chance of peace the destruction breeds. Set upon an acient tone, sooth the pain the rumble stone. All has come and all has gone, for a rest to my brightened soul.

[Smapdey]

Damn, Six.

You're right in everyway. Women are exactly like you stated. The other great the break-up/divorce process can be.

The first person I ever thought I was in love with I went out with for nine months. It was my freshman year, I thought our love would last forever. It didn't, she left me a broken, burnt husk of a man. I hated going to school every day to see her and her new boyfriend and having to hear and see what she said or what other people thought. Was it worth it? I still go back and forth between that answer, I still think that I'd rather experienced it again though just because of what I learned even if I don't want the pain.

Remember, love hurts like no other.

The end to this story is that school ends and I come to the actiontrip comment boards for the first time...

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Deus Ex
SixShooter, that was a very thought provoking post, glad you could share your experience...it's definitely making me think twice about marriage, not that I'm going to do it any soon though. 1 second that

[Marc]

Ive had my heart broken enough times. Ive thought of ........Bad Stuff....... And well, i find these girls. They flirt with me, we talk. I tend to like them. And eventually forget and find a new 1 and repeat. Life + Love suck. Need Hooker

[Bobz0r]

Ahahaha... i lost my virginity to my first girlfriend after like 3 weeks... (she was supposedly one too, but i highly doubt it).
I was "In love" shall we say, and after i caught her cheating (even though i was "The best she had ever had, she couldn't walk after i was done ;))

But the point is, love comes, love goes, love sucks ass, and most of all, you cant choose who you love, it just happens.
My advice to cr3am, get some balls and ask her out to the movies. If she likes you, she will gladly accept. Even if youre a nice guy, what girl wouldnt want a free trip to the movies with a nice guy?

After i caught my ex cheating, i fell into a big depression and now have to take pills and shit cuz i attempted suicide.
Girls fuck you up, thats for sure.

now, i just like to put that:
http://maddox.xmission.com/personality.gif

and...If you're not good looking and you're not rich, then you're pretty much screwed (unless the girl is horny, in which case she'll use you for what she wants, even if you're ugly).
quote and picture taken from Http://maddox.xmission.com

For a song that exemplifies my love life,
Download this
Taking Back Sunday- Your Own Disaster
(piracy is a wonderful thing)

[cr3am]

Originally posted by Bobz0r
My advice to cr3am, get some balls and ask her out to the movies. If she likes you, she will gladly accept. Even if youre a nice guy, what girl wouldnt want a free trip to the movies with a nice guy? wtf? i've asked out every girl i've liked

[Marc]

Ok guys. Good news 4 me. Today i talked to her friend. And she asked me if me and (ill call her S) were going out. I said "no, cause everytime i ask her she says boys suck" she says. "just give it time". YAAA ! Lets hope she right. Anyway, girls are pains. Friendship never works.

[NirvanaFan2006]

cream i know what you mean totaly when you say "why can't the girls you like ever like me back" (or something similar), mainly because its very true for me too, like last week on tuesday i had a 3 hour make out sesh. with a girl i like cause she was single after she was just dumped by her old b/f... then the next day i found out that she and her old b/f are going out again... so now i dont have a chance at all and probably never will. There's also a girl i like at my school thats really cool, but she's a senior so its not worth asking. But so far, ive never found a girl that's like me back. Never. Not once, and i dont know if it will ever happen considering i dont know of any one liking me right now and any girl that has liked me has always been turned away by something, probably my deppresion considering im on 2 anti-deppresants and they arent' doing squat. Love sucks, Love Rules. Life in all is a oxymoron. You love it and you hate it all at the same time. well thats just my take on it. The wait in life isnt for the girl, its for the feeling of not being lonely, for being happy, and being able to get girls. For if i had that feeling i could get girls more often then i'd have the confidence to try, i wouldnt be as shy or quiet, as i am now. But since I never get the girls seeing ive never had a g/f ever.. i dont even know how to get a g/f now considering every girl i like doesnt like me.. so now after all these times of trying i feel like its not even worth it. I dont know if i have the hope to try anymore, its just too painful.

[Bobz0r]

Originally posted by cr3am
wtf? i've asked out every girl i've liked

oops

[Smapdey]

Christ, you're all depressing.

Guys, there's always fat chicks! :D

[NirvanaFan2006]

yea but fat chicks make me shudder when i think about hugging them or doing stuff with them

[Bobz0r]

Hey, Big girls need lovin' too (Sorry, I dont get with big girls, but if you do, this is your motto.)

More Cushion for the Pushin'

[Smapdey]

And you can call them names and they can't get mad because you're the only boyfriend they've had in ages.

But then again everyone else might not like you and think you're a loser for going out with the "food monster" and god knows what else.

[wangstramedeous]

Originally posted by NirvanaFan2006
cream i know what you mean totaly when you say "why can't the girls you like ever like me back" (or something similar), mainly because its very true for me too, like last week on tuesday i had a 3 hour make out sesh. Love sucks, Love Rules. Life in all is a oxymoron. You love it and you hate it all at the same time. well thats just my take on it. The wait in life isnt for the girl, its for the feeling of not being lonely, for being happy, and being able to get girls. For if i had that feeling i could get girls more often then i'd have the confidence to try, i wouldnt be as shy or quiet, as i am now. But since I never get the girls seeing ive never had a g/f ever.. i dont even know how to get a g/f now considering every girl i like doesnt like me.. so now after all these times of trying i feel like its not even worth it. I dont know if i have the hope to try anymore, its just too painful.

I can only lament with you comrade. I've had the same experience too. I've gotten the same wanna be your friend kinda answer. Its tough on the chicks too sometimes, half of em don't know what the hell to say besides that. But shit by now they should ALL know that's like ripping out our crotches and barbecuing them.

Maybe love is pain, I dunno. What ticks the hell out of me tho, all the good chicks beat out on the bastards that don't give a shit about them, then come running home with tears.

I like to write poems when the going gets tough. Not necessarily to encourage myself but to experience the pain and know its there but somehow it also "steels" me. Here's one for example.

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The Unbreached Abyss
© Femi Akapo

Here it is a dark, sad place.
No warmth, just cold, cruel faces -
Laughing at me.
I have failed for I am still that lonely wanderer –
Of the unplumbed depths of sadness,
No one dares pick me up.
And I have fallen, fallen, fallen
Into this subliminal abyss.
My reach could not exceed my grasp
And I have been excluded from love,
Pushed aside like a dirty rag.
Upon entering these worlds
I look back and remember her.
Regretting all that went wrong and wish so badly
That I could hold her in my arms
And tell her I love her and she too the same.
But alas I am here,
Sad, lonely and waved about
Like…nothing
Will this shadow haunt me forever?


Hey ppl lemme know if you like the thing.

[NirvanaFan2006]

i like that poem, nice job.