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xenophage
January 14th, 2006, 12:58 PM
Mine would have to be smoking and not pursuing higher studies

TopSecretBoy
January 14th, 2006, 01:12 PM
Going out with my ex.

Downfall
January 14th, 2006, 01:14 PM
introducing one of my best friends to a realy hot girl i should have gone for myself.

StormyPeak
January 14th, 2006, 02:36 PM
My deepest regret...

That I never patched things up with my mom before she died.

I loved her, and I know she loved me, but we never really saw eye to eye on a lot of things...which let to arguements. Seems like every other time I saw her it ended in harsh words, I never could figure her out.

She wanted all of her daughters to be what I call 'barbie doll women'...dress sexy, watch soap opera's, go to church, get married, lay out side and tan and read the Enquirer, and not do anything physical..except have kids...ect.

I wasn't cut out for that shit.

I wanted to hunt and fish, and go dancing, go to the movies, date guys because I liked them and not with the goal to marry them....marriage was a possibility but not my number 1 goal in life. I never watched one soap opera my entire life...I watched sci-fi, documentaries, dry British humor comedies, and never gave a shit about what celebrity was banging what celebrity - I detested the Enquirer magazine with my whole being.

I was a person she just didn't understand...and although I know she loved me as her kid, she didn't like me for me, because she felt she didn't 'raise' me to be the way I was...and I was doing these things to hurt her...no matter how often I told her I did things for my own reasons. She actually believed I became an atheist to spite her..lol..like I would base my whole religious outlook for that!

Towards the end of her life, before her cancer really kicked in and started to ravage her mind and body...along with the painkillers she was taking...she and I had some good moments...but then we got into it...said some mean things to each other.

I left her home, thinking I would go back in a few days and talk to her about it...and try to settle things between us. But within 2 days...she had 'slipped' over the edge...and was never really the same person afer that - cancer and drugs had affected her too much....she died some 2 months later, crazed with pain and having hallucinations from the drugs and probably because the cancer was in her brain too by then.

I'll regret that fight for the rest of my life....at the time, I just thought it would be like any of the other of hundreds of little fights we had, and that we would meet up again and each apologize for losing our tempers and sit down and have a cup of coffee and talk about 'neutral stuff'...stuff that wouldn't have us at odds with each other.

Stormy

King Speedy
January 14th, 2006, 02:49 PM
Fucking up at school and getting dismissed from college.

Odm
January 14th, 2006, 03:01 PM
Not having any real experiences to speak of.

LynX
January 14th, 2006, 03:58 PM
Not making an effort to get in shape, which i'm paying for now since i've 10 years worth of extra cargo to work off.... o well.

Not going for this REALLY hot girl in college who was in the same class, although i knew she also liked me. Go post-breakup-self-denial-angsty-phase!


Stormy: i'm sure she understands. :)

Docta Beeeer
January 14th, 2006, 04:00 PM
no topic

Digital Limit
January 14th, 2006, 04:28 PM
Not having any real experiences to speak of.

Same here, haha. We live a sad, sad life.

Hitman
January 14th, 2006, 07:02 PM
Not having any real experiences to speak of.



Same shit here.. it's a sad day when I can say that my most rewarding experience on this planet was being in the Marines, then again.. people have to die and someone has to kill them.. I stand corrected.

Smapdey
January 14th, 2006, 07:43 PM
Not banning the majority of the posters on the forums for being stupid assholes when it would have improved the community ten fold.

Digital Limit
January 14th, 2006, 07:48 PM
I hope you regret that comment the next time Xenophage makes a thread like this.

Smapdey
January 14th, 2006, 08:24 PM
I probably will.

No Soul
January 14th, 2006, 08:24 PM
Blowing off a girl that I've liked since middle school. I'm over it, but that is still my only semi-regret.

BodomBeachTerror
January 14th, 2006, 08:50 PM
Not taking a dump today at work. Now I am stopped up.

SuperDavidGT
January 14th, 2006, 10:13 PM
i dont do regrets, but if i did:

not asking the girl i loved to stay when she left over east for uni. she needed to escape her bitch of a mother and her backstabbing friends and a world she'd suddenly become afraid of (for distressing reasons) so i suggested she get a fresh start, and she got accepted over east. i knew if i asked her to stay she would but i didnt because it would be selfish, so she left.

i havent spoken to her since, because we both agreed to get over it and move on. her best friend saw that as permission and moved in on me, after a while i gave in and tried it out with her but that fucked up and now all her friends hate me, but i can live with that because their all a bunch of vain, self-righteous whores.

the girl was perfect: hot, loaded, exciting, gave good head and could even do a decent job of driving like a maniac, and ive turned into a cynical and jaded bastard over the past twelve months. maybe i should regret.

/heartbleed

tisl
January 14th, 2006, 11:26 PM
Deleting my ~50 gigs of porn about a year back. I had some real sick movies.

PHAT_ASS
January 15th, 2006, 11:39 AM
missing all the opportunities i had with women...
smoking too much weed and failing college cuz of that...
buying Guild Wars...

TopSecretBoy
January 15th, 2006, 01:19 PM
smoking too much weed and failing college cuz of that...


You see, that's the exact reason I don't smoke. I'm sure that some point in my life, I'll get high off some weed. But not until I'm out of college, and there's nothing left to fuck up.

PHAT_ASS
January 15th, 2006, 04:03 PM
You see, that's the exact reason I don't smoke. I'm sure that some point in my life, I'll get high off some weed. But not until I'm out of college, and there's nothing left to fuck up.

oh dont worry i managed to stop in a snap of a finger... its just that last year i used to go out everynight doing the same thing: smoking weed and eating Mcdo... then i coudnt get up the next morning and ended up missing tons of classes

schnitzel_bob
January 15th, 2006, 04:50 PM
Not telling my former boss to go take a flying leap into lake fuck-off.

Silence
January 15th, 2006, 05:12 PM
fo fuckin up school and stuff like that

TopSecretBoy
January 15th, 2006, 05:20 PM
oh dont worry i managed to stop in a snap of a finger... its just that last year i used to go out everynight doing the same thing: smoking weed and eating Mcdo... then i coudnt get up the next morning and ended up missing tons of classes

So what you're saying is, you didn't stop at the snap of a finger...

RogerWilco
January 15th, 2006, 06:17 PM
You see, that's the exact reason I don't smoke. I'm sure that some point in my life, I'll get high off some weed. But not until I'm out of college, and there's nothing left to fuck up.

I don't think you will ever get your chance. If there is ever a time to fuck up it is before you get out of college, provided you don't fuck up too bad and destroy the rest of your life.

Smapdey
January 15th, 2006, 07:22 PM
Seconded.

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 16th, 2006, 12:47 AM
Reading StormyPeak's long posts previously on Atrip. Damn I still want that time of my life back. ARGH!

Smapdey
January 16th, 2006, 01:24 AM
Also seconded, but I really didn't read most of them. I would just skip over it and flame her.

Vlad
January 16th, 2006, 05:22 AM
My deepest regret...

That I never patched things up with my mom before she died.

I loved her, and I know she loved me, but we never really saw eye to eye on a lot of things...which let to arguements. Seems like every other time I saw her it ended in harsh words, I never could figure her out.

She wanted all of her daughters to be what I call 'barbie doll women'...dress sexy, watch soap opera's, go to church, get married, lay out side and tan and read the Enquirer, and not do anything physical..except have kids...ect.

I wasn't cut out for that shit.

I wanted to hunt and fish, and go dancing, go to the movies, date guys because I liked them and not with the goal to marry them....marriage was a possibility but not my number 1 goal in life. I never watched one soap opera my entire life...I watched sci-fi, documentaries, dry British humor comedies, and never gave a shit about what celebrity was banging what celebrity - I detested the Enquirer magazine with my whole being.

I was a person she just didn't understand...and although I know she loved me as her kid, she didn't like me for me, because she felt she didn't 'raise' me to be the way I was...and I was doing these things to hurt her...no matter how often I told her I did things for my own reasons. She actually believed I became an atheist to spite her..lol..like I would base my whole religious outlook for that!

Towards the end of her life, before her cancer really kicked in and started to ravage her mind and body...along with the painkillers she was taking...she and I had some good moments...but then we got into it...said some mean things to each other.

I left her home, thinking I would go back in a few days and talk to her about it...and try to settle things between us. But within 2 days...she had 'slipped' over the edge...and was never really the same person afer that - cancer and drugs had affected her too much....she died some 2 months later, crazed with pain and having hallucinations from the drugs and probably because the cancer was in her brain too by then.

I'll regret that fight for the rest of my life....at the time, I just thought it would be like any of the other of hundreds of little fights we had, and that we would meet up again and each apologize for losing our tempers and sit down and have a cup of coffee and talk about 'neutral stuff'...stuff that wouldn't have us at odds with each other.

Stormy

I'm sorry to hear about your mother.

However, the stuff I highlighted in bold, is that the truth? You're one pretty cool chick. I wish my girlfriend was like you :(

As for my biggest regret? I guess that's still to come. I'm only 20 and haven't finished uni yet. Although, I guess I regret being born. :( Damn i'm depressed.

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 16th, 2006, 05:46 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your mother.

However, the stuff I highlighted in bold, is that the truth? You're one pretty cool chick. I wish my girlfriend was like you :(

As for my biggest regret? I guess that's still to come. I'm only 20 and haven't finished uni yet. Although, I guess I regret being born. :( Damn i'm depressed.
MILF!!!1oneoneone!!11

Digital Limit
January 16th, 2006, 05:51 AM
MILF!!!1oneoneone!!11

I got the most horrible image of Vlad getting it on with Stormy.

Yup, I'd really like to eat this cereal... ugh.

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 16th, 2006, 05:58 AM
I got the most horrible image of Vlad getting it on with Stormy.

Yup, I'd really like to eat this cereal... ugh.
Fuck you man, I am going to be sick.

Vlad
January 16th, 2006, 06:02 AM
MILF!!!1oneoneone!!11


I did say I wished my girlfriend was LIKE stormy, not stormy herself.

You guys are into some sick shit. :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:
:rolleyes:
:rolleyes:
;)

StormyPeak
January 16th, 2006, 08:35 AM
Vlad, lol, thanks for the compliment....you started my day out just fine : )

I am exactly as I described myself, and I'm sure there are other gals out there just like me, so don't give up on finding a girl who has interests and goals similar to your own.

You're only 20, and have lots of time to look, and there are a lot of girls out there trying to find their 'right' feller - and the nice thing about finding the right person -- usually the hunt is rather fun. :D

Stormy

Phobo
January 16th, 2006, 08:44 AM
biggest regret ev4r: picked the boots instead of headpiece rogue lvl 50 quest reward!

irl: i could have fucked her all night long that nite 10 years ago, but i didnt because i was a sissy :(

RADiator
January 16th, 2006, 09:36 AM
Doesn’t it just warm your heart when a common mood of the forums is set not by the greatest achievements in ones life but by that of ones greatest regrets?

There are no mistakes in life, just the lessons to learn. And instead of mourning the undone, take full consolidation in understanding the lessons of life. Many people can’t do that.

xenophage
January 16th, 2006, 09:49 AM
You're only 20, and have lots of time to look, and there are a lot of girls out there trying to find their 'right' feller - and the nice thing about finding the right person -- usually the hunt is rather fun. :D

Stormy

There unfortunately is no "right" fellar out there, there's just a lot of confused women who don't know what the fuck they want in life

Roq
January 16th, 2006, 03:41 PM
Going out with my ex.

Join the club, but I have the added part of not using a condom a few times and making her preggers.

tisl
January 16th, 2006, 04:52 PM
Fucking hell, I'm eating a bowl of shawarma meat and now there's some snot in it thanks to Vlad.

Vlad
January 16th, 2006, 05:43 PM
Vlad, lol, thanks for the compliment....you started my day out just fine : )

I am exactly as I described myself, and I'm sure there are other gals out there just like me, so don't give up on finding a girl who has interests and goals similar to your own.

You're only 20, and have lots of time to look, and there are a lot of girls out there trying to find their 'right' feller - and the nice thing about finding the right person -- usually the hunt is rather fun. :D

Stormy

That's good advice. I will try to hunt more often from now on. My girlfriend is nearing her use-by date anyway, so I have nothing to hinder me in my quest for a soul-mate.

Fucking hell, I'm eating a bowl of shawarma meat and now there's some snot in it thanks to Vlad.

You're a funny character Tisl. If you get any funnier, I may have to kill you. There is only room for one funny guy around here, and it's not you Tisl.

Have a nice day Tisl. ;)

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 16th, 2006, 09:26 PM
Fucking hell, I'm eating a bowl of shawarma meat and now there's some snot in it thanks to Vlad.
Suck up on the snot like you do.

Also second biggest regret in life.. I never secured a fuckin' A+ in Uni. I mean for fuck sakes the lowest grade I ever got was a B+. And I was on Dean's Honors for a fucking 4 year timeframe but noooo.. there will be always that one single fancy pants that fucked my chances of securing an A+. Fuck them bitches. I am fine w/ my A, A- and B+. Fucktards. Fucking nut suckers.

Vlad
January 16th, 2006, 10:20 PM
Suck up on the snot like you do.

Also second biggest regret in life.. I never secured a fuckin' A+ in Uni. I mean for fuck sakes the lowest grade I ever got was a B+. And I was on Dean's Honors for a fucking 4 year timeframe but noooo.. there will be always that one single fancy pants that fucked my chances of securing an A+. Fuck them bitches. I am fine w/ my A, A- and B+. Fucktards. Fucking nut suckers.

What a tragedy. Is there anything we can do to help?

TopSecretBoy
January 16th, 2006, 11:41 PM
Yeah. Play yourself in a game of Russian Roulette with a m1911.

AVataRR
January 17th, 2006, 03:05 AM
My deepest regret...

That I never patched things up with my mom before she died.

I loved her, and I know she loved me, but we never really saw eye to eye on a lot of things...which let to arguements. Seems like every other time I saw her it ended in harsh words, I never could figure her out.

She wanted all of her daughters to be what I call 'barbie doll women'...dress sexy, watch soap opera's, go to church, get married, lay out side and tan and read the Enquirer, and not do anything physical..except have kids...ect.

I wasn't cut out for that shit.

I wanted to hunt and fish, and go dancing, go to the movies, date guys because I liked them and not with the goal to marry them....marriage was a possibility but not my number 1 goal in life. I never watched one soap opera my entire life...I watched sci-fi, documentaries, dry British humor comedies, and never gave a shit about what celebrity was banging what celebrity - I detested the Enquirer magazine with my whole being.

I was a person she just didn't understand...and although I know she loved me as her kid, she didn't like me for me, because she felt she didn't 'raise' me to be the way I was...and I was doing these things to hurt her...no matter how often I told her I did things for my own reasons. She actually believed I became an atheist to spite her..lol..like I would base my whole religious outlook for that!

Towards the end of her life, before her cancer really kicked in and started to ravage her mind and body...along with the painkillers she was taking...she and I had some good moments...but then we got into it...said some mean things to each other.

I left her home, thinking I would go back in a few days and talk to her about it...and try to settle things between us. But within 2 days...she had 'slipped' over the edge...and was never really the same person afer that - cancer and drugs had affected her too much....she died some 2 months later, crazed with pain and having hallucinations from the drugs and probably because the cancer was in her brain too by then.

I'll regret that fight for the rest of my life....at the time, I just thought it would be like any of the other of hundreds of little fights we had, and that we would meet up again and each apologize for losing our tempers and sit down and have a cup of coffee and talk about 'neutral stuff'...stuff that wouldn't have us at odds with each other.

Stormy

waw. after this post, it's kinda disappointing to read all the useless whining that came after. I can't belive no one took the time to respond to such a deep and heartfelt expression of the .... heart. I kind of have the same relationship with my own mother. Only with less arguments, regret and cancer..... Although sometimes I wish she did have cancer. Same goes for my dad. My biggest regret in life is choosing such fuckwits for parents.

JerraMaya
January 17th, 2006, 04:52 AM
the day i masturbated 10 times in a row

farsimon
January 17th, 2006, 05:14 AM
I regret ever joining an online forum - I never realised how addictive it could get.... I'm only grateful that I had the self control to stick to only one...

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 17th, 2006, 06:14 AM
I go to fucking 5 or 6 or maybe 7 fucking forums every single fucking day and it fucking sucks ass because posting and shit is lame and there is nothing I can do about it. I am a fucking forum junkie. Dammit!

Vlad
January 17th, 2006, 07:16 AM
I go to fucking 5 or 6 or maybe 7 fucking forums every single fucking day and it fucking sucks ass because posting and shit is lame and there is nothing I can do about it. I am a fucking forum junkie. Dammit!

HA, HA.

dR.Jester
January 17th, 2006, 10:55 AM
Sticking it in my g/f's ass. TIGHT SHIT YO'!

JerraMaya
January 18th, 2006, 01:23 PM
Sticking it in my g/f's ass. TIGHT SHIT YO'!
she bites ?

Downfall
January 18th, 2006, 01:39 PM
i do

Trustkill
January 18th, 2006, 01:52 PM
1. putting my 1st post in a while in this thread.

2. drinking & driving.

3. blowing all my money partying instead of saving when I was in my early 20's. Would've helped having a fucking down payment when house hunting.

xenophage
January 18th, 2006, 09:20 PM
Long time dude

WhoGivesARatsAss
January 18th, 2006, 09:28 PM
Sup Trustkill, still alive?

Trustkill
January 19th, 2006, 06:57 AM
still alive and still falling to sleep with images of you in my head. G'night sweetie.

bxx
January 19th, 2006, 08:00 AM
regrets? those are for pussies. real men live with what they do knowing that they would do the EXACT same thing if they had a chance to relive through their life. im perfectly content with the way things have gone down for me and i wouldnt change a thing. theres no point to regreting what has made you stronger.

Digital Limit
January 19th, 2006, 08:44 AM
I actually don't regret anything.

I like how my life has turned out so far.

Regrets are for old people, or failures.

Odm
January 21st, 2006, 03:59 PM
Suck up on the snot like you do.

Also second biggest regret in life.. I never secured a fuckin' A+ in Uni. I mean for fuck sakes the lowest grade I ever got was a B+. And I was on Dean's Honors for a fucking 4 year timeframe but noooo.. there will be always that one single fancy pants that fucked my chances of securing an A+. Fuck them bitches. I am fine w/ my A, A- and B+. Fucktards. Fucking nut suckers.You're from India, right? Figures. (That's what the stereotype is, at least.) I'm guessing you're joking, though, since uni seems to be a while back for you. I mean, you got a job and a wife since then...

It's not really a regret, but university admissions are fucking with my head. Because I took a bunch of classes that aren't good for getting in to uni and now I'm supposed to finish the process but I keep putting it off. And so every e-mail or letter I get makes me nervous as hell that I'm missing something I need.

Ed- Oops, I think I mixed you and Jerramaya up. My bad.

xenophage
January 21st, 2006, 11:53 PM
He's from Pakistan

farsimon
January 23rd, 2006, 01:04 AM
You're from India, right? Figures. (That's what the stereotype is, at least.) I'm guessing you're joking, though, since uni seems to be a while back for you. I mean, you got a job and a wife since then...

It's not really a regret, but university admissions are fucking with my head. Because I took a bunch of classes that aren't good for getting in to uni and now I'm supposed to finish the process but I keep putting it off. And so every e-mail or letter I get makes me nervous as hell that I'm missing something I need.

Ed- Oops, I think I mixed you and Jerramaya up. My bad.
they're both pakis, btw...

Docta Beeeer
January 23rd, 2006, 07:28 AM
no topic