View Full Version : Self Harming
Vulgar
March 14th, 2006, 06:35 PM
What do you think about people who cut themselves to make themselves feel better (or not i'm not one to judge)?
Do you think it is is a selfish response or a non-selfish response to the way people think about you?
I think cutting yourself is a very selfish thing in the fact that it will prbably mean that you are hurting the people who know you despite the fact that it may make you feel better.
I'd like to hear peoples opinions... Its not as if its suicide is it.....
edit: wow i just realised i said not to judge and i just did so ignore that :-)
Downfall
March 14th, 2006, 07:49 PM
i say go deeper and get it over with
Digital Limit
March 14th, 2006, 08:37 PM
I don't understand the logic... but it seems to be the thing to do during an intense bout of depression.
SuperDavidGT
March 14th, 2006, 08:40 PM
Suicide scares me, it really does. I know people whove tried, and one succeeded, and it's not pretty, especially for those left behind. It's selfish and cowardly, in my opinion.
wmgreer
March 15th, 2006, 09:26 AM
It's selfish and cowardly, in my opinion.
tisl
March 15th, 2006, 10:43 AM
Cutting is the queerest thing you can do. Nobody is stupid enough to think that slitting your wrist will result in death, so it's just for attention. I think if you do shit like that you should have your ass kicked so you can get depressed enough to actually kill yourself and rid the world of your nagging.
alas alackaday
March 15th, 2006, 12:26 PM
Nobody is stupid enough to think that slitting your wrist will result in death, so it's just for attention.
I might be fairly ignorant, but doesn't most self harm occur in secret rather than in the open which is the logical option if you're looking to seek attention
I know people whove tried, and one succeeded, and it's not pretty, especially for those left behind. It's selfish and cowardly, in my opinion.
What if you commit suicide because you're the only one left behind?
Point is, to some, suicide seems the logical option and though you can say they have alot of good in their life and so on, it might not feel like it. Point is life(or death) isn't always logical and the one act in their life can't reflect their whole personality.
Anyway; No matter how screwed up, things can always get better until the day when they can't then you will never need to worry again. ever.
Downfall
March 15th, 2006, 12:37 PM
a silent cry for help is still a cry for help
alas alackaday
March 15th, 2006, 12:48 PM
Never really got that saying ,but, my point was that if the ONLY reason for self harm was attention, then wouldn't it be better to draw attention to the fact that you're self harming?
Kain
March 15th, 2006, 01:46 PM
Two kinds of people cut them selves, Suicidals and Attention seekers.
Attention seekers cut themselves multiple times leaving many scars often across the wrist's resulting in clumps of Scarage.
Suicidals only cut themselves once.
If you fail to commit Suicide, you obviously werent trying hard enough, and get put in with the attention seekers.
Sorry if im being insensitive its just how i feel.
Silence
March 15th, 2006, 02:17 PM
friday nights i write emo poetry, listen to depressing music, cry and cut myself...
NOONE UNDERSTANDS MEE!!!(caps needed) you shut up your not my moom
ihateyou
March 15th, 2006, 03:38 PM
I don't see how inflicting pain is going to make you feel better, if anyone is dumb enough to do it, I say let em..
SuperDavidGT
March 15th, 2006, 09:48 PM
Suicide might be okay if you're samurai and into that sort of shit, but when it comes to western society, teenagers, and the evil messages of emo punk, it's just not on.
If there was a list of the "five things destroying our youth" emo music will be number two, right after fast food, and right before WoW.
Suicide is for pussies who can't deal with life.
Downfall
March 18th, 2006, 02:29 AM
remember kids, its down the street, not across the road
Digital Limit
March 18th, 2006, 12:57 PM
remember kids, its down the street, not across the road
You're so cliche'. Just get out.
Downfall
March 18th, 2006, 02:50 PM
you cant make me
:P
Elitez Psycho
March 18th, 2006, 04:08 PM
If there was a list of the "five things destroying our youth" emo music will be number two, right after fast food, and right before WoW.
I'd say that society itself is number one. Society itself is what fucks us up.
SuperDavidGT
March 18th, 2006, 09:37 PM
you cant make me
:P
he's right, DL, he's got more immunity than Jerramaya
I'd say that society itself is number one. Society itself is what fucks us up.
i thought that was a bit too obvious :p