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gamp_alcom
December 7th, 2006, 11:16 PM
I sometimes wander to smh.com.au blogs and find some interesting topics. Here is one for you.

This is IN relation to Porn and how porn has degenerated (or evolved) from the basic vouyerism in the 70's or 80's and comparing it with today having so much like like.. just say its different.

Now because of it, the new generation of porn wankers have started watching these types of porn and therefore thier mentality has evolved making them lose actual reality from Porn to Real Sex.

This article is actually a blog and this blog has linked it to a survey (should you even wish to participate but the hypothesis theories are actually interesting.

All right gentlemen, start your todgers, it's time for you to reveal a little about yourselves.

A couple of months ago, I wrote a blog on How internet porn is changing your sex life, detailing my theory that easy access to hard-core and humiliating sexual imagery was redefining the sexuality of a generation of men.

The blog got a huge response and still ranks as the most viewed item I've written here, with readers including some from the clinical psychology faculty at Queensland's Bond University.

Masters student Tessa Hall got in touch with me shortly afterwards and asked for help with research she is conducting into the effects of net porn on attitudes towards sex and the quality of relationships.

I've often bemoaned the lack of data and research in this area, so I've decided to unzip and get personal with Tessa and I'd like you all to join us ...

A thesis is only as good as its hypothesis, and Tessa has two beauties that I'd like you to consider.

Hypothesis 1

a) Sex (specifically orgasm) is dopaminergic, and therefore similar to activities such as gambling, eating and substance use.

b) In all other appetitive behaviours, habituation is observed, whereby the user needs more or more frequent stimulation to get the same effect.

c) Pornography exposure alone is unlikely to create habituation. However, the coupling of exposure, with the dopamine release associated with orgasm, is likely to create habituation. Therefore frequent masturbators are more likely to experience a "drift" in their interests from straight hetero or homosexual practices, into more novel (and hence arousing) sexual territory.

Hypothesis 2

a) According to sexual researcher Alfred Kinsey, virtually no one masturbated to erotic literature or images in 1950. We know that had changed by 1970. The X-rated films Deep Throat and The Story of O moved pornography from the boutique into the mainstream.

b) Sociologists tell us that porn has been getting nastier since then. Standard pornographic practices now do not involve two individuals moving through the Kama Sutra and onto climax. Rather, much modern porn includes elements of bisexuality, bondage, verbal and sexual humiliation as well as more specialist fetishist practices.

c) People in their 20s no longer learn about sex from their older sibling, or looking at a Playboy. They learn about sex by watching pornography.

d) It is therefore likely that those who learn about sex from hard-core modern porn will learn that the behaviours described above are normal. This may be a cohort effect (e.g. that anyone under 25 will display this belief, and anyone over will not). Or it may be an effect related to pornography exposure.


link
http://blogs.smh.com.au/lifestyle/allmenareliars/archives/2006/12/masturbation_a.html

So what you think? Could this be another form of ammo for people against porn? (refering to the World W/o Porn thread)

unskinnybob
December 8th, 2006, 12:47 AM
Porn is good. Porn saved my relationship with my wang. We've never been closer.

farsimon
December 8th, 2006, 01:07 AM
c) People in their 20s no longer learn about sex from their older sibling, or looking at a Playboy. They learn about sex by watching pornography.


I applaud amazing statements like these.

gamp_alcom
December 8th, 2006, 01:30 AM
I applaud amazing statements like these.

perhaps she meant softcore magazine of playboy, as compared to hardcore video pornography?? :confused:

MrBored
December 8th, 2006, 01:42 AM
What bullshit. People want to fuck and people want to fuck in more and more interesting ways. Romans didn't have porn and they had some pretty awesome orgies. The greeks also didn't have porn, so they decided to use little boys to get their kicks. Also, didn't one of the Queens of England get it on with horses? Or is that some kind of awesome legend? I'm pretty certain that people don't really learn about sex from anyone, once those chemicals start flowing its all instinct.

tisl
December 8th, 2006, 06:57 AM
It sounds more like a guy ranting on his blog than a proper theory. The broad statements aren't helping.

wmgreer
December 8th, 2006, 10:22 AM
c) People in their 20s no longer learn about sex from their older sibling, or looking at a Playboy. They learn about sex by watching pornography.


Since when did people start waiting to learn about sex until they turned 20?

MrBored
December 8th, 2006, 11:10 AM
This guy must have

Hitman
December 8th, 2006, 07:26 PM
God gave me a Dick, god gave her a pussy.. if she shows me her pussy I will fuck the pussy.

Fucking is hardcoded instructions that are implanted into our brains from the time of birth, it really is that simple. People don't need to watch porn or have a peer tell them how to fuck, put two kids in a room alone and give them some time, within a hour or two fucking will commence, fucking is really a natural thing.


I remember the first time that I smelt pussy. It was in middle school, 6th grade, one of my buddies came into class and immediately said "smell this", he put two fingers to my nose and naturally without even being in a pussy or seeing one I knew what the smell was.. so to sum all this up.. guys and girls alike cannot resist the urge to fuck, we get boners and they get wet, well I say put those two reactions to use and fuck, no discussion needed.

tisl
December 8th, 2006, 07:43 PM
God gave me a Dick, god gave her a pussy.

put two kids in a room alone and give them some time, within a hour or two fucking will commence, fucking is really a natural thing.

we get boners and they get wet, well I say put those two reactions to use and fuck, no discussion needed.
So you're saying... God wants us to fuck?

Docta Beeeer
December 8th, 2006, 08:08 PM
no topic

Kain
December 8th, 2006, 08:48 PM
So you're saying... God wants us to fuck?

God does, Relegions dont.

Mainly since it makes inheritance that much harder.

Lehesu
December 8th, 2006, 11:54 PM
The desire to fuck is the same as any other desire...just because it naturally exists does not give you carte blanche to engage in the activity, nor does it bestow any inherent rightness in the act. One who has no capacity to temper his appetites with logic and his own will power will find it difficult to live a balanced and purposeful life.

Digital Limit
December 9th, 2006, 12:36 AM
Eloquent motherfucker.

iha‏teyou
December 9th, 2006, 08:46 AM
who gives a shit
This post should've been the last one in this thread.

gamp_alcom
December 10th, 2006, 10:08 PM
actually I believe what the girl in the article is trying to say, porn has become more debasing over the years that it takes more extreme acts to turn us on. Just showing boobs aint enough nowadays to get a boner. :eek:

Lehesu
December 10th, 2006, 10:40 PM
True. Used to be just a little ankle and the guys would go wild...

BodomBeachTerror
January 12th, 2007, 02:43 AM
Porn is good and can help establish a healthy sex life.

Porn has taught me how to do things I would not have never known to do. Thank you porn.

CXalculus
March 2nd, 2007, 08:55 AM
hmmm when i watch porn i get more turned on from the breastparts and the normal sexy stuff then the harder things they show, i mostly fastforward then cause its not my thing.

Still when i was young and i never had sex before i know my first girlfriends i had were damn happy with the things i could do learned from watching porn in the old days!

siggi11
November 21st, 2007, 05:46 AM
Porn is good. Porn saved my relationship with my wang. We've never been closer.

What did you do? Like... strap it to your forhead? That would be awesome... It could create some confusion at metal concerts with all the headbanging and stuff, but it's still pretty fucking cool. Cheers, matey!

Porn IS sex... This is shameless. To accuse the wonderful world of porno of such a thing. If anything, it introduced a bunch of horny 13 year olds to it. Didn't alinate for shit.